Dear Sexy Sage,
I have been doing online dating for the last month or two and have had a huge response! I find myself enjoying meeting new men so much that I am constantly heated up in the groin. However, I want to go slowly; friends first! How do I manage the competing needs between my head and my lady parts?
Signed,
Lady Parts
Dear Parts,
Well, isn’t that a nice problem to have!
Make a list of what you want in a man and what you don’t want. Be sure to include the deal-breakers.
Make sure you read that list before and after you meet any man you are attracted to physically.
Stick with the friends-first approach no matter what. Remind yourself that he is going to have to be deserving to get some action. Although you may feel like you are rabid as a bunny rabbit, know that you have years of wisened lessons to draw from. Don’t buy into the sex crazed older woman bs .You are in control of yourself!
Then, use your head as you proceed with dating. Use your hand — or your vibrator- to keep your parts in appropriate check.
