Dear Sexy Sage,
I have been single for the last two years after a 25 year relationship. I am technically a senior citizen, albeit attractive and active, and am told I look about 55 years old. I am fortunate that I get interest from very nice men but that is the problem. I am just not attracted to them even though I know they would treat me kindly and be good solid partners.
I really want someone with whom I feel chemistry- that sexual-emotional-spiritual connection that elevates everything. Not only do I crave that in every cell of my body, but pragmatically that type of connection truly does make all the hassles -that are part of relating to another person intimately- worth it!
While I do value stability and companionship, I really want the real thing! Is it possible? Should I hold out? What to do, Oh SS!?!
Frustrated
Dear Frustrated,
Yes, this is the 64,000,000 question and no one knows for sure, right? But you know what you have to do, girlfriend! Keep looking! Keep open! Keep positive! Keep believing! Have some faith in the universe and don’t settle.
That’s it. Simple but not easy. I have a feeling its going to work out for you just dandy! You are a powerful manifestor with a line to the goddess divine!
Love,
Sexy Sage
